I should probably give some more details......This situation has been going on for 3 months now and seems to be going in the wrong direction. My wife currently is disassociating herself from me...She is working all the time and it is to the point were I go days without seeing her. When she is working she is in the presence of the OM. And I should point out that the OM is currently leaving his wife and 2 kids. Not only is this situation destroying my home but another. Our family wants our marriage to work...her mom, dad, sister have told her that she needs to stay and fight...but the rebellious spirit of my wife does not want to....She doesn't feel our marriage, our family is worth salvaging.