The only solution is to muddle through crisis, disaster, happy times etc ... hand-in-hand. We need to each start closing our personal exits (you know - work, computers, masturbation instead of sex, busyness etc...) and face each other. I have been pretty blunt here. The bottom line is that I love you and I am putting myself waaaaaaaaaay out on a limb to say - please, let's try (however imperfectly) to be each other's soft place to land. I love you and I assume that you have shared these things because you love me too. Closing the exits, forgiving and accepting each other and moving forward is the only place I know to start.
