Same here - I think my H is having EA and PA with OW now that we're separated. How long have you been separated? Has he moved out? Wish it were true, but not sure I'm buying that "most affairs last 6 months" cr@p.
I do still very much want to be with him (guess I should say I want to be with the person I used to be with, not the person he is right now). I'm ok for the most part. Have some good friends I can count on for support and am happy to have found this site - what a great place to vent and share crazy thoughts. Friends are great, but it's hard for them to understand if they haven't been through this themselves. He's made sure I'm ok financially, but I've recently gotten a part-time job for some extra pocket money, and as a way to GAL. How about you? When will your D be final? Are you still DBing?
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D
