Hi SH,

Found out my H had been talking to OW from cell records dating back to at least June 06. But he's her boss (she's an administrative HO...Sorry, had to throw that in) so A may be longer. I discovered this after he dropped the bomb Nov 06. I completely doubted that he would commit any sort of infidelity so I never snooped. I still felt crazy b/c he kept denying everything until recently when he took my kids to dinner with OW and her D9. Now, I hate to face the real possibility that EA & PA exist with OW b/c we are separated. Gosh, I'd say my H's A may be over one year.

Do you still want to be with him? I know you're kids are young like mine and it is just devastating. How are you holding up? Do you have support network? He didn't file but is he helping you financially?


Me: 36
WAH: 35
S1: 5, S2: 3, D: 2
Married 13 yrs
Bomb dropped Nov. '06
H filed D papers Feb. 1, '07
H nows says OW is GF since April '07