Hi, fearless and Mrs.cac.

Quoting myself:
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My point is that the "LL concept" used by a number of "experts", is flawed.

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I will likely start a flame war here, but my position is and has been that all needs are NOT created equal, BUT the overall needs of an individual inside a relationship is equal to their partner's needs.
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Since this is going to create confusion and controversy, I will write about my statements in depth on my thread when I feel up to it. I don't want to hijack this thread.

Fearless, I think that Chapman and others are thinking in only 2 dimensions. "Maslow's Hierarchy", while also seriously flawed in my opinion, still presents a more realistic (loosely) representation of individuals/relationships than many currently popular theories. I have my own relational theory that I will cover later on my thread.

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.