COG-
I had to stop by and see how you were doing. AND to say that i'm finally understanding some of the things you would keep telling me-was it a year ago already??? yeah, so I'm a slow learner.

my situation hasn't changed much, but *I* have. My attitude has changed, Thank God. I'm not as horridly self-righteous as i used to be...still far to go, but i'm working on it.
i'm glad to see that you've made such progress with your lady. It's still comforting to read your posts.

I haven't come here for some time--I've been way too busy til now but I'll be back to keep up with my friends.
take care!
jacqm