Sorry for no updates recently but things have changed, for the better. On Friday the 23rd I went over the house after really nothing happening except me being more detached from my wife. To make a long story short, after an evening of talking my wife essentially did a 180. Why she did it, I’m not 100% sure, but I am sure using some of the techniques from here have helped and most importantly patience, and for the most part not having lost my temper during all of this.
She said she wanted me to move back home immediately, that we have to make our marriage work, she has been incredibly lonely, and many other positive things including, “I Love You”. She has gotten through her anger and wants things to work out. And we (at her request) have been intimate several times. And it has been great; she commented that we should separate for 3 months more often just for the sex.
So now I’m back home with my wife and family. We both want to avoid pitfalls in the future, I don’t feel any tentativeness on her part, she feels like she is back. And each day that goes by I feel the distance that was between us closing.
Thanks again for all your support. I will check in when I have more time.
