Quote: --------------------------------------------- The point again is that this LL concept that Chapman wrote about IS exclusively about a couple. ---------------------------------------------
I understood the point.
My point is that the "LL concept" used by a number of "experts", is flawed.
Let me ask you a rhetorical question: You are in a room with a screaming baby and a basket of clothes that need folding. What do you do first? Which is the greatest and most immediate need?
I will likely start a flame war here, but my position is and has been that all needs are NOT created equal, BUT the overall needs of an individual inside a relationship is equal to their partner's needs.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
