I'm not asking for a review of what I said to him. I did okay and he didn't get mad at me. I just want an explanation of why he didn't put them in the refrigerator so as to extend their shelf-life and buy more time to GET them to the post office. He often sabotages himself this way. He buys plants and lets them die before he gets them in the ground-- he does this A LOT. Even though the garden is at my house, I've stopped paying for the plants. He does this with lots of stuff. We throw away tons of food at his house.
Because he isn't you. And if he wants to sabotage himself, he gets to do that. And by the 10th time he buys his daughter tortillas and they've molded, he'll either learn or he won't. His daughter will get fed up with moldy packages and ask her dad to stop, or she won't.
