I can't believe your seeing all these "boobs" too. that sounds really funny. That's ridiculous. In my opinion, it just makes women look bad.

That's a good idea about setting goals on what a really good R looks like. I'm not even sure if I would know. Part of me says, someone who would talk to me about strong subjects or talk about their relationship with God. But I know that's not going to happen, at least not now. So, I don't know. I guess I'll have to think about that. Maybe it's just about me, feeling comfortable in certain situations or something.

I even said in the car on the way to the club "I guess I'm glad Roberts going, I'd probably feel weird going by ourselves" he said why, and I said, I guess since we never do.

I hope I don't discourage you for your future R with your H. I think you guys will be totally different. You guys have ALWAYS been alone. We've ALWAYS had kids. So I totally think you guys' R will be way better than ours. You just have so much time to really get to know each other. And everything you say makes it seem SO obvious that you guys will be together, and next year it will be soooooo soooo different, maybe even by this fall.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."