So stubborn, you can't take this personally. Give her the space she wants. Be fun, have a life, smile often, be you. She will be the one missing out, not you. Don't even bother responding. I am so sorry your S is being so childish, but she is hurt and is lashing out. Does that mean you haven't been hurt? No... but you're acting, not reacting here. So take a deep, cleansing breath, and pull yourself together and tell yourself, you can do this! This sounds a lot like where my H and I are at right now. Ideal? No. But it is actually better for my sanity as I am clear on what I should or shouldn't be doing. So use this as a positive, stubborn. It sucks, but at least you won't have to worry about unreciprocated touches or unfeeling emails. Cut that all out. Be you. Take care of you. Rise above, girl!


I matter.

Me 32
xH 33
D7, D5
BOMB 9/27/06
D final 4/3/08