and very good questions I might add. We are only discussing this because it was stumbled on by D anad handed off to spouse. She has no plans to go anywhere that I know of because she doesn't want to really make a decision or really go. (why not? who knows?)
I feel my opposition to 50/50 applies to any YOUNG child. I am opposed to separation but more opposed to living in the current sitch for much longer with NO end in sight...I have never said spouse could not see child. I think child should have ONE, PRIMARY residence. I have not explained this thoroughly to spouse. And it doesn't fit her fantasy so it's not what she WANTS to hear anyway so I'm not sure saying it even does any good. jeeze.
the journal thoughts are good. It's as if she read my thoughts for a given moment and based all her feelings on those. I don't think she does know I have talked to DB coach. DB coach is the one that said to show spouse the "natural consequences" of her actions and suggested what to say. Which I wrote down and now due to my lack of mental clarity (gee, I wonder why?) everybody has read
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
