Yes , I have treid to talk to her about this , and she more or less throws it in my face , and blames me for it.

I can say this isn't her, she has changed alot in last few months, but i think shes all caught up in this ( goin out and havin fun thing..
One thing i forgot to mention about her goin out is , we had her first kid when she was 23 and secend 3 years later...So part of me wants to think this is all her tryin to make up for lost fun (though i totally disagree with how shes doin it)

thx for advice...it helps alot

Never give up on the ones you love...It only hurts you more in the end..