Me and my wife have been together 8 years (5 married) , we have 2 younger kids, we have been having major issues in last few months with arguing lately, and issues we both are at fault at,at one point in time she wanted to leave me for a divorce.We just moved into a new place to try to start fresh. BUT.....
3 weeks past, she has a friend that she goes out with that is married (not legally seperated, yet), she is a heavy drinker, she uses her husband to watch her kids, all the time..she has been with 4-5 different guys in last 3 monthsand doesnt care about her husband at all..

during this past 3 months my wife has become,very distant and seems like she cares only about her friends and goin out not the kids or me. A drinker, comes and goes as she pleases, has admitted to 3 affairs ( 2 sexual , 1 kissing), she goes out all nite long and sleeps all day, can't where her wedding rings out.To add to this i think shes pregnant..75% sure its mine...

During this time my wife has gotten into 2 fist fights with her friend , 1 car accident taken her friend to hospital3-4 time for anxiety attacks..

I truly love my wife even threw all this and think she may be goin threw a phase or just got to caught up in the nitelife / affairs deal, she has stated many times about seeking help (only to go back on her word), i wanna do everything i can to save my family and marriage...

Any help or advice>?


Never give up on the ones you love...It only hurts you more in the end..