Theo; As usual, you are right. I have not unloaded this on God, I have refused every offer of His to take my load and give me rest, and now I find myself very tired indeed. I have been worried about what I would say to God if I was honest (as if He doesn't know already), but to have it leave my lips scares me.
Whatis; Thank you, you are always so concerned about reducing my pain and helping me move in a positive direction. However, confirming this information is a way for me to move forward,granted that is further away from my wife, but that is where I need to head. Unfortunately, I have recently started to think about the legal aspects of this, and what I want to accomplish if my wife continues on this path. Obviously both wife and OM are not people I would willingly allow to influence my children. Theo and I have talked about this before as well. There isn't much I can do about wife, but if there is a way to limit OM's influence, then that is what I will have to do, even if it is through filing with cause of adultry. I need to talk to atty. and see if this can be done after she files no fault.
81388 Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,
"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis