Mothermovingon, I like your login name! I too have to some degree (better now than months ago) have stoped obsessing so much on OW like i psoted before i have only called her once in the beginning (september 06) and then again the other day when she did not come to the phone. I really don't like bringing her up on our topics of conversation at home and i have had a bad habit of trying to see hwere he is at w/ her by asying something sarcastic about his R w/ her just to see what he says, like sometimes he will say no.. she is mad at me b/c i have not beeen spending any tiem w/ her lately or something to that sort. THen (amazingly enough) there has been times when H tells me to "lets stop talking about her"?!? Up intil this past saturday when i was out of town for business i was starting to think that maybe they had a fallen out or something b/c he was coming home on time and not going out like before, but i guess i was wrong. I had been sliding bcak on my positive thinking and now like Snodderly said i need to get back on my feet. Thanks, Snodderly i think i took your advice last nite by showing my H i will not be his doormat any longer and i actually did get his respect for it last night!
