I read in DR that an affair usually lasts 6 months. My H's EA started early 2006, but then ended because of distance (I think). I also think that she's moved back and he's been living with her since Jan 2007, but no proof.

Been hanging on for 8 months now with no progress. How long did A last for you/your spouse before things got better/ended?

M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D