Momof2girls What state did this happen in? My H old D draft waas done by his mediator and before i told him i would not sign, but last nite i said was no longer going to his doormat and i was ready to sign the papers now. Yet i know if i put that clause of her not being around my kids he will not go for it and it will long and drawn out again.
It's kinda weird how he reacted to me standing up for myself and the his making the kids lie as i was discussing this and other things that were on my mind. I did not feel like cooking for him last nite and he actually started to cook and when he finished he came to me while i was on the computer and said "i thought i would never say this, but get off the computer and come eat" He was actually being nice! I told him that i am a much better woman than his skank GF and that she had nothing on me and he said ok then why keep all the fussing? I said b/c i am tired of you using the kids for your lying and your dirty work. I am ashamed to say your their father, you are teaching them how to lie for you! Of course his response is always another lie, hey kids did i tell you not tell mommy? Anywho............. I thought he might keeep going into details of us needing a D ,but after he said that i can keep the house and all i had to do is change the electric to my name, he dropped it and started to kinda be playfully hitting or nudging me and trying really hard to see who i was typing to (this website). I was confused he did not respond like he normally would like before at the beginning of all of this when he was dead set that he was done. It was like his old self when he knew he did something wrong and would playfully come to me ( this is his way of apologizing and tryiong to make up).
