H took a text message and texted her back right in front of me. I could not help myself I told him that I knew he and she were talking so much everyday and I asked him if he was starting up with her again.... and I told him about her phone call and told him if she keeps harrassing me at work I am going to report her and asked if he had seen her and was starting up with her again and if he was being honest with me like he said. I reminded him what he had promised to me before he had came home and how he has gone back to what he was doing before and that he was worrying me. UUGggghhhhh! Major backslide, right?
He said what he always does, "I'm moved back home, didn't I?" I said, yes, and I am very happy, but I see things picking up between you and her and that is not ok with me.
He said "Well, Im not going to just toss her aside, she is my friend". I said, no she is the OW an affair and I understand you and she has feeling for each other, but I need you to fight for our marriage, too". (gag gag gag)
And I told him I felt like texting her about her cancer and he said do what you want..... so I did... I texted her and told her I hope she feels better and to call if she needed anything and good luck to her. She texted back thanks. I know this infuriated her because she tried to call H twice last night very late, but my H was already sleeping. I am sure he will get and earful this morning! NO DOUBT!
I told him this morning that I texted her and what I said, she will probably try to tell H something I didn't even say and probably to tell me to leave her alone... (she needs to leave us alone!!!!!)
He seemed good to me this morning, but sometimes he does not show his true feelings. Although last night he said, she is trying to start trouble and I thought the same, but he was still defensive of her. UUGGGHHHHHHHHH!
Do you think I messed things up? Read a couple posts up, too. more of the story. thanks. Cissy
