I haven't seen my H since last August (almost 8 months). I know that it would be depressing and discouraging to see the man he is right now. Like you, I think I would just want to escape to my safe place.
My H is one of those men who will continue to drag his feet and find himself at the bottom of life when he does eventually wake up .. a pathetic man "sitting on a barstool holding a tattered photo album of the days he thought were so unhappy".
Always, I will be okay no matter what happens with my situation with H .. just like you will be okay.
