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He still unfortunately has the dreaded Tattoo,, hopefully one day he will cover it.
...but he will have to do it on his own.
I DO KNOW~!
I will mention it~!

I meant to say I will NOT mention it!
I will not for awhile and I will not let it bother me as best I can...

Yesterday on a side note my D8 came into the room and MY H said " honey I do not have a shirt on.." ( the Tattoo , I think he is finally embarrassed @ it)


So I told her to leave the room daddy is tired.... and later she comes back in and I really and truly forgot @ the tattoo.

I used to worry about her/the kids reading it all the time cause she is soooooooo smart but I have let that go. And so what does she do?

I was laying next to my H facing the tv and my daughter was laying on the other side of him and starts reading the tattoo and sounding out the OW's name... I almost passed out but not b/c I was mad or hurt.. Just because.


Well she sounds out XX and then XXXXXXXX and my H is feeling I dunno what and he says to me like pleading for help "HONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! "
I did not say a word. ( should I have ?)

and then our D8 says " What does that say Daddy?" and he says "Nothing honey." and then she says her name clear as a bell and also asks " Did you have another Woman Daddy?" and he replied in a serious but not angry voice " NO I DID NOT..."
( my D8 is very smart for her age and she likes to joke around a lot with her dad , but she had no idea she was right on the money)

I think my H wanted to die of embarrassment.. I said nothing. He brought that one upon himself. I have told him countless times to wear a shirt around the kids! Sheesh ya think he would listen to me....
I gently walked out of the room and into the bathroom to cry a few tears..
I dunno why ..
cause,
I am over the OW and the Tattoo~
but I think it is time to cover it.... ENOUGH~
I dunno if my H knew I was upset some or not~
Or if it even upset him?? Any thoughts? I am not going to mention it and hope he covers on his own ? Any input?


Today he was a doll.. \:\)

When I woke up and I had to get the kids to school he did not want to stop snuggling with me~

I took my S15 to High School and when I arrived my H was getting ready to take the little ones to school with me ( 180 for him )

Before we went to the store I had some Coffee, and it warmed up to 70 degrees here to day it was beautiful and I was Hot.. so I said " Boy I am really hot... " and he said " Yeah you sure are."

He took me to the grocery store~ ( he does not like doing this )

He also took me on a walk and to eat at our Fave restaurant near our house~

We kissed like teenagers when we got back~

Just kissing ( REALLY) and it felt so nice~



The icing on the cake is.. he went to visit some friends and he called a bit ago for me not to worry that he"d be home soon and he said .....

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ILY ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
\0/ \0/ \0/ \0/ \0/ YEAH Ali Is very, very Happy!
WOW~ these days really do feel like blessings!

I must say that I am being very open with him and just saying what I feel and not being scared anymore. I feel very comfortable and this feels like it is getting easier for me and for him too.
Thank you all so much for your kind words and for your support God bless you all....