Actually, you have endless possiblities for the details of the restraining order. Call some lawyers and just get some over the phone information on how to go about this. You can even call the courts.
Mental anguish is a good one.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19