your grounds for restraint is that you don't want any unrelated guests around your children...overnight or otherwise...
I am going to be using that soon due to my H's OW...my kids are not going to be around some "skank" who knows she is a homewrecker....
Make it extremely difficult for your H to have kids if OW is going to be around...Tell H they are not to be in her presence unless you meet her first.
I am going to tell that to my H also....He would probably rather die than have me meet her....hopefully he will wait until we are D'd before anything happens...who knows??? he is on a fast track to destruction.
everyone is right...do not call...gives her power!! I keep telling myself not to rip H a new one over the temp agreement he wants...knowing he is getting to me will give him satisfaction...OW does not care about your feelings, don't give her anything to add fuel to the fire....it will burnout all by it self!
