You will only empower her and give her more ammunition.
She is worthless and is being used. She is not worth it and she will make you really mad.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Please don't stop i need to keep hearing this over and over or try a 2x4 like some others here have!!!!
I did call her at work and gave a phony name,but it's like the coward she is wouldn't get off the other phone and the person just wanted to take a message, but i hung up.
Actually, if you do not want your kids around OW you could get a restraining order against her.
That is a far reaching way to do it but you could.
I am sorry your H is so adamant on having OW be around the kids.
But please do not call her. She is a skank.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
your grounds for restraint is that you don't want any unrelated guests around your children...overnight or otherwise...
I am going to be using that soon due to my H's OW...my kids are not going to be around some "skank" who knows she is a homewrecker....
Make it extremely difficult for your H to have kids if OW is going to be around...Tell H they are not to be in her presence unless you meet her first.
I am going to tell that to my H also....He would probably rather die than have me meet her....hopefully he will wait until we are D'd before anything happens...who knows??? he is on a fast track to destruction.
everyone is right...do not call...gives her power!! I keep telling myself not to rip H a new one over the temp agreement he wants...knowing he is getting to me will give him satisfaction...OW does not care about your feelings, don't give her anything to add fuel to the fire....it will burnout all by it self!
Actually, you have endless possiblities for the details of the restraining order. Call some lawyers and just get some over the phone information on how to go about this. You can even call the courts.
Mental anguish is a good one.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Actually i would think the courts would say that this is a free world and H can take the kids around ANYONE he feels like? Has anyone out ther ever tried this and had it work?
