Actually, if you do not want your kids around OW you could get a restraining order against her.
That is a far reaching way to do it but you could.
I am sorry your H is so adamant on having OW be around the kids.
But please do not call her. She is a skank.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19