mrsh, your thread locked! I just caught up with your sitch and I can't believe how similar it is!! I know we said this before but it really is uncanny. I am also going to ask for full custody of D's. H left and is having an A and goes a week or more without talking to the girls.
This whole thing just sucks...I really liked the analogy of the closed door... We will get through this...our kids are the world and we need to do whats best for them. I am so angry...right now I am ashamed that H is the father of my children!! How did I ever get fooled by this wolf in sheeps clothing?? HOPEFULLY I will see my L tomorrow to go over all the disgusting paperwork...I still think he is so nervy to ask for EVERYTHING and wants me to pay for it!!! There was no need for it!! As far as your question on mediation goes...I thought about it but my emotions are way to high and I would be afraid I would concede to something I didn't want to.