After talking about it, we both realized that some people think they can say whatever they want to their immediate family--things they would never say to acquaintances. They think the familiarity of their family allows them to be "honest," which really translates to rude.
My bf subscribes to this pov.
Blackfoot, cobra's comment was an insight into why cac might have done what he did.
Your comment was simply that the dialogue Mrs. cac reported (and that I said sounded like what my bf and I go through without going into any detail about the content of OUR convo) made Mrs. cac and me sound "needy and fused," and that imagining yourself in cac/Lil's bf's shoes made you irritable.
I think that was just your Contrarian speaking, but I couldn't seem to make myself let it pass. Of course you can have feelings-- duh!-- but if you express irritation at something you imagine I might have sounded like discussing a subject when you don't know what the subject was or any of the specific dialogue... expect me to comment on it.
Besides, cobra and I were married in a past life. We have history.
