I think you should make the best of the time with family that you can before she goes....don't push for ILY's or anything...just be the great guy you are....give her something to miss, rather than run from. Its gonna go by quick, and she's stressed and excited and all kinds of stuff running through her head...pressure from you at this point might be a bad thing.
And it don't take much for them to feel pressure, do it?
Not that I know what I'm talking about yet....just some stuff that comes to mind.
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