Lets say I did one of these for months. Likely nothing will change. Now what? Divorce has already been ruled out. At that point, I would have to return to the bedroom and lose respect in the process. Am I missing something here?
Sounds to me, based on what you have said, that she already does not respect you. So you have nothing to lose.
If you think about it, GELs option 3 might make the most sense in your case. Just go stay in a hotel for a few nights saying you need some time alone to think about the marriage and the fact that she is not respecting you. Don't say anything about not wanting to sleep in a sexless bed or whatever. If your prediction is correct, you just come home and go right back to where you already were. However, I'll bet if you told her the name of the hotel where you were staying you will get a call from her. And that conversation could be very revealing. I could be wrong though.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
