I agree with LN that our sitch's are quite similar. Amazing isn't it...Sometimes I don't even think I have to post...just change names on some other post and put that up...maybe even come up with a form letter LOL.
You seem to be in a good place and dealing with W in a good way....keep it up....confidence wins most often :-)
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