i have a question for all you veterans... How am I suppose to "act as if" and not feel like a doormat? I was just emailing my H and i let him know that i know about his weekend activity w/ OW mom visit (he told the girls not to say anything). He got upset and told me not to worry b/c when he will have them on the weekends(implying D) which by the way H has not mentioned D it a lng time, that he can do whatever on his weekends. I told him fine but now not to use the girls for his dirty work. I told he couldn't meet me out of town like i suggested,but she calls and he jumps to see her (w/our kids) also out of town!
I am tired of him thinking i don't have a clue. How long or how does one act as if? Do others just turn their head the other way and act like you don't cluless? I am having a hard time w/ this.
