I'm watching your posts. The more you detatch and be mysterious and inaccessible, the more he chases you. Notice I didn't say be distant and nasty. Detachment is sexy. When he does talk to you, YOU control the conversation. You play with his head. You getting him to a red-hot boil, then end the conversation.
When you asked him to divorce you, you scared him and he backed down.
You see? When you chase him, he runs. When you are demure and mysterious and sexy, you attract him.
