I agree with Theo.

Sounds like you are doing well with DBing - another good book is "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass.

Don't be surprised if it is also a PA actually I feel the EA is far worse to get over - it was in my H's sitch...

You are doing good though considering your circumstances...

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Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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