Just make sure that you do not ever end up "apologizing" for the fact that you are high desire. You are a man, which likely makes you visually oriented, and thus you appreciate the female form. Do not let her try to take that away from you. I think that us HD guys often end up trying to fit our wives views, when in effect, we should try being men. Men LOVE to look at women, this is completely normal. The fact that she thinks you are objectifying women means that she does NOT understand the nature of men. Do NOT appologize for being male (and thus lose respect).
