Tell you what, when I am out w/girlfriends & kids tonight, I will say a special silent toast for you.
Not sure where I will be next August w/H, not sure if I could hang in there like you. You have very many VALID questions.
I would like to suggest as your friend, decide not to do anything today, or even next month on your 11yr anniversary. I just bet your H realizes what today is.
Keep you to yourself & don't let him see that it is affecting you. I am here sending you my support.
You have come along way & your D has been postponed. You are strong and can do this. You do not have to make a choice today.
Hugs!!! and more hugs....
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
