Val, thanks for updating and letting us know that you're OK.
I'm so sorry at the turn of events. I guess we all hope, somewhere deep within, for that magical "OMG" moment that these morons might have.
But, as with everything MLC-related, it's just one big mess, whether it works out or not.
And, much to our surprise, we wake up, day after day, caring less and less, and less able to tolerate the madness as we gain more normalcy back into our lives.
I suspect that you have built a nice life, though sad without old H, that even thinking of OW, legal and financial issues and all the madness, just doesn't fit into your life now.
I guess that's what it comes down to. In the beginning, THEY felt that WE did not fit into their "new" lives....and I guess we didn't. Then, as time goes on, and we build lives, we see that the new alien they are doesn't fit into our lives.
I recently had my first face to face with H (in 10 months), and it was weird...he was weird. Nice, fairly normal, but still off. My predominant thought, at times, was just wanting to go home to my space/peace....
Hang in there Val. Regardless of H, you sound like you're in a fairly good place, and you have always had your ducks in a row with legal/financial stuff with the D.
