I hear ya! It was a good learning experience though, and I believe it pushed the threshold a little further than it was. I'm not afraid of her like I have been for a long time. And even though she did'nt like me pursuing for sex, what I learned was that she liked the subtle flirting. We have'nt done that in years. She's actually initiated it several times in the last week. Verbal stuff, not physical, but it's new! She's been teasing me about stuff. Not poking fun at me, but more of a teasing thing. I like it, and I give it back to her.
So it's an ebb and flow kind of thing. We've got to get out of our comfort zone and push the envelope sometimes. Then step back, consider the outcome, and follow the positive's. The fruit of my struggle these past two weeks? We've begun to tease each other. And we all know where a little teasing can lead.
God Bless,
COG
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