Snodderly, One more thing I forgot to mention (not that I am analizing everything...but) I was telling H about the banquet and what a good time we had, how busy I am at work and how I was looking forward to spring and getting out and doing things. He commented that it sounded like things were going well for me. That he thinks I have a line of men waiting for me. I don't know how to respond to these things. Does he want me to say yes so that it is easier for him to be away or is he looking for me to acknowledge that I am still standing? Not sure.
Also, d12 has been having problems with her former best friend. Ever since d12 has joined an elite softball team and friend wasn't asked to...friend has dropped her. The parent's who were friends of mine/ours do not call. The girls have had words and were pulled into guidance a few weeks ago. D12 is no angel but she understood she was wrong and former friend said that, while she doesn't want to hang with d12, she won't be mean anymore. Fast forward to last week and d12 came home crying. Former friend was telling all of d12's friends not to sit with her, not to be her friend, she smelled...etc. I emailed parents since I was too emotional to call. Just stating that d12 is going through a hard time and if they could ask their daughter just not to alienate d12's other friends from her. The parents were cruel. Said d12 can find new friends and she only has herself to blame. I couldn't believe it. No compassion whatsoever. She said she was sorry we are going through this but she does not want to discuss the girls ever again. My problem now is that d12 doesn't want me to tell H about this. She is adament. Says she won't tell me anything if I tell him. I know if I tell him he will go to d12 and discuss it no matter what i say.....Do I tell?
