COG, sorry I encouraged you down the wrong path and the flirting and innuendos didn't have a good effect. It was a huge 180, too much for your W to handle, but if there is a positive in this now you know that. MHO, your approach was too abrupt. I know, I am late bringing this all up but I was gone last week and wanted to comment on it. If I tried with H the things you did, it would go bad too, except in a rare instance. Little things work though, just a one line remark, back off let it settle, just a touch, back off let it settle.
It is great how you can focus and recognize all the positive and wonderful pieces of your life. Getting all those pieces in place is the only way to the pieces of your M to fit together too. To me it sounds like you aren't an adult crude boy any longer, you have made the change to a gentleman. Nice.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
