Starting to really piece it back together

[Heartbroken]

Well today will be seven days since she contacted him. H is done with her and I believe him. We spent all weekend together sneaking over to the apt for some 'fun' time after grocery shopping. The kids were happy they got to stay at their home ALL weekend and had friends sleep over.

H and I did date night (Sat.) and we had a lot of talking about OW and us and where we want our R to go. He really showed me his pain when he found a song that pertains to him/us - Hoobastank "The Reason" - he broke down when it was on the radio. I now know how hard this has been on him too. It did not help that I was this totally understanding supportive wife - one he could not just hate and up and divorce....

It's funny he ended over two weeks ago and he changes everyday - he can now see the negatives they (Ow & him) had and the positives he was giving up with me... H still wants to stay at the apt next month he's just trying to make up his mind if this is long enough (we have to let the apt people know this week if Apr is the last month). H is worried about if she is still calling when he's back at home - but so far she seems to have backed way off. We shall see... The next time she does call he promises to make it short and not so pleasant (that is if she does call again).... baby steps one day at a time...

My anxiety level has really decreased and I can now focus on my job for real!! Finally!