Still Alive, V

[Burgbud]

Update: The Jayhawks lost, and that hurts me deeply, but Burgbud is still going to say something he thinks is clever...

You know how sex is like pizza; even when it's bad, it's still pretty good? Well, the Jayhawks are just the opposite. Even when they're really good, they still pretty much suck.


H: So you don't know if you can love me because of this belief, which I've told you is just the way I am; but you want me to be happy with you the way you are when you ignore me sexually? Think about that for awhile.

What I think you pointed out to her is that she objectifies you. She doesn't want you to be Hairdog, the guy who gets a little thrill from seeing a little cleavage, she wants you to be her "husband object". I don't at all know if it's a good idea to do this, but I'd dearly love to know what her reaction would be if you asked her if she can love who you are, or if she can only love her idea of what a husband should be. That should be a wake up call for a good Buddhist, but "good Buddhist" is a way of me objectifying her.