I can understand where your coming from. In my case, there would be no place for me to go. We have 4 bedrooms and they are all filled. I could end up sleeping in the basement. The threat of not sleeping to gether is NOT going to work with her. She would actually LIKE it. Having a MARITAL bed is NOT what she wants. She just wants a bed. If I was not there, she would be missing nothing. THere is nothing that takes place in a bed that is related to her love language.
