Thanks Journey. I really didn't show any anger so much as a little unvarnished "truth" as I saw it. I think I surprised him a bit. We'll see what happens.
I asked a few things:
- for him to share more of what he is thinking feeling if he hasn't spilled it all yet - for him to tell me if he was angry or if he wasn't angry for him to share some positive thoughts about us/me. - I asked for a hug and a verbal acknowledgement that we heard and accepted one another's fears and were moving on to meeting some of the needs we each expressed.
**No response to these yet**
I also agreed to do some things like go to bed earlier and come home earlier for the remainder of the pregnancy. I AM worn out and have less than four weeks remaining (give or take) so it would be a good idea to get what rest I can.
