Thanks Snodderly and Sun, Not sure what H will do regarding the D. Some days I think he will go through with it some days I think he is waiting for me to do it for him. I am not sure at all. I don't see him coming through this crisis anytime soon. He filed in july and still nothing has been completed. No custody arrangement, no financial agreement, nothing. I hope he is dragging his feet but who knows. He said last night he needs to stand on his own 2 feet for the first time in his life. I don't know if that is all talk or what. It scares me. The calls in the middle of the night, the way he physically looks and some of the things he says are just strange. He said last night he that his always relying on others to do things for him got him into the mess he's in. I don't know. I just don't see him coming back anytime soon. Standing is getting harder and harder especially since there seems to be know signs of this situation turning anytime soon. Mopsey
