I only hope you realize what a wonderful person you are. Even tho others may take your personality the wrong way, as I know many people have also taken mine the wrong way, it is you! They do not know that inside you, you meant it one way, but they took it the other. Thats happened to me many times. It is only becuase you have a BIG HEART and are so willing to give. You don't happen to be a Scorpio?
Our son's.......I think your son is my son, and vice versa. I have been struggling with the same issues. He's almost 26 and still lives at home. I would not trade him for the world. But I have enabled him so much, he now takes advantage of me. I am DB'ing with him. My mother also had to do the "tough love" with me. The apple did not fall far from the tree. I ask him for the smallest of help, and I feel that I get nothing in return for all I have given him. I can't even put into numbers the amount of money I have spent helping him out of his messes. We should compare notes......
There comes a time in our lives when we have to live for ourselves and not feel the guilt for not helping others. If we cannot help ourselves it makes it harder to help others.
All your struggles will on day be rewarded. Have "Faith" and keep being you. It will pay off.
Sending all my bleesings to you.
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
