Ok, very admirable, but for and extremely insecure man, how does he fit into the family? Maybe he sees you as too successful? Maybe he would like to know that you need him?
He fits into the family I would say. We are both pretty involved with the kiddo's. I naturally do more and make I would say a majority of the decisions. But it has always been this way. He doesn't seem to mind it and seems to very much trust the decisions I make with the kid's. He has a few things he is very much against where I would be more of a push over and I also respect that. Maybe he does feel a little threatened by my new outlook on life and all I am trying to achieve. I know he said he supported me going back to school. Kept asking when I was going to enroll. Perhaps he does need to know I need him more then I show. I have just become so use to being independent.
Another unusual thing I have noticed about myself aside from the fact that I feel I have become LD. Is that I also have to have intimacy in order to feel sexual at all towards my husband. Before I could have sex at the drop of a hat. Take for instance Friday night he was kind of grumpy a little. Said a few things to aggrivate me. Was not loving. I was thinking to myself I sure the heck hopehe doesn't try anything. Then Saturday I had that thought in my mind about him not trying anything. But he was loving and attentive. He helped around the house some. He kept flirting and pulling me to him for kisses. Then he very agressively made the moves before we headed to bed. He was so passionate I fell into puddy in his hands.
