chicki please go and check my sitch, I am at the 2 years mark almost. xh married ow, our son doesn't want to be with her at all, xh as more or less forced son to be with her over this time, she hasn't seen my son since september last, he didn't go to the wedding, his dad as taken him on a long weekend away this last weekend and guess what they have had a fallout, son tm'd me and told me dad wants to see more of me but I GOT to see her. Why won't xh accept the kid doesn't want to see her, and if it is a choice for him to see his son or be with new wife then he as already made his choice by marrying her. No before anyone says anything about this being me, no it is not it is purely and genuinely son that doesn't want to, he is nearly 13 years old and he says she stole my dad and my childhood I have to do without so why should I see her and make her happy, she took dad and she aint taking me. So after nearly 2 years he is still trying to manipulate son into his little fantasy world, only god knows when he will stop it.