Hi! Just thought I would take a few minutes to update. I look at my "title" and think about how much things have changed for me over the past several months. When I first posted w/ this "title" I was waiting patiently to see what was going to become of my m. Now, I am trying to wait patiently for my D to become final...only a little less than 6 months to go....too bad NC is a state where you have to wait 1 year!!! And, unfortunately for me, patience is not one of my strong points.
I know there may be some of you who do not approve of my decision not to stand for my m. But, I cannot tell you how much happier my kids & I are!! Letting go of my m is something that I should have done a long, long time ago. Life is so much sweeter off the roller coaster ride! I was always a firm believer that a person/couple does everything they can to make a marriage work. Well, I still feel that way; and, I can honestly say that I DID do everything to try to work things out. Sometimes, a person just has to admit it's over and move on...that is what I did....and now I have so much to be thankful for!!!
Bill & I are very much in love!!! We were able to see each other this past weekend and, to make things even better, one of his sons and two of my three children were able to meet....what a GREAT time we all had!! We could not have asked for the kids to get along any better. We spent almost every minute laughing at them and watching them interact and learn about one another...it was truly amazing!! Bill & I have said all along that we felt we were right for one another and that we would be an awesome family...this weekend proved it!! We have truly been blessed!!
There are several of you on the board that I keep up w/, even though I do not post very often. Please know that I do think about you and I wish for you the very best!
Mrs. H., remember to hold your head high and be confident in yourself. As I have told you many times, you are a strong woman and you have come a long way. Don't EVER doubt yourself and ALWAYS trust in God!!
