I figure that he gets paid to do this all day, so why not go with what he suggests. This is what I have tried to do.
If it makes YOU unfomfortable to be on his network, then trust your feelings enough not to do it. Im not going to mediate for you, but if you handle on the finaces then I am sure you can compromise and have him handle the backups at the point when it goes out of your boundary of comfort. which means you can do your own and if he wants more ... he can do it.
Backing up files and handling finances aren't the actual problem though; differences in communication are the problem.
Exactly. In the beginning men and women derive a lot fo satisfaction from playing rescuer/ rescued. Women create ... scenarios... situations, we will even call it ...drama to feel connected. They want to have relevance, they want to have that joined team feeling. If you are not giving it to her on your terms, she will try and generate it on hers.
Today's event just happened to be set off by my comment about backing up my file. The catalyst could have been any number of things Yep.
You don't have any context to go on. Since you weren't there, you can't picture what it was like to be in H/bf's shoes. You don't know what was said, how it was said, who said what to whom. All you have to go on is the hearsay Mrs. cac and I provided in our respective sitch's, which isn't enough for you to imagine the scenario with any reliable accuracy
but it was enough for Cobra to generate a brilliant diagnosis?
Ok. Thanks for telling me what is and isnt enough for me to have a feeling.
I guess Im lost on the validity of anyone posting there POV anymore then.
