Well, its seems like everytime I give him space he comes around. Saturday my daughter's cell phone rang. She answered it and handed it to me. It was my husband. He asked what I was doing? I said I was eating lunch. He said he had tried to call me, but got no answer. I told him I had gone to get lunch and must have missed the call. I later checked my cell phone and I had a missed call from him on there, ha, must have made him wonder if I was ignoring him. He wanted to know where I wanted him to put some things that he got out of storage. He brought them over, and we unloaded it. Then we had to go back and get the other load. It was things that we had in storage from a long time ago and we now have room because we built a large shop behind our house. It was toys that we had saved for the kids and other things. We went through some of them and it was quite sentimental. He was very friendly. I told him I needed to clean out the flower beds, and he said he would help me. He talked more Saturday than he had talked in a while. He kept finding more things that needed to be done outside. He even asked me if I had plans, because he said he would do other things if I didn't. So we ended up working in the yard about 5 hours. Maybe I shouldn't have but I let him spend the night. I figure he is my husband and that there is a bond between us when we make love. I did not bring up anything about us. He kept talking about all of the changes in me. I will not call him. I will let him call me. He probably thinks I will call him since he spent the night. I will admit in the past when he spent the night I got a little clingy, but this time I will let him think of me. Oh yeah, we burned some branches in the yard and our clothes got very smoky. I told him to leave them here and I would wash them for him, I figured he would object, but he didn't. Usually he makes sure he takes everything with him, when I offer to wash something for him. This was the first time I had seen him in a week.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon